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Karmic Relationships -

Written by Nandini Agrawal | Reviewed By John Victor | Updated On October 8, 2022

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Human is all about interaction and communication. We all are inherent with the need to connect and belong to fellow humans. Still, each one of us at any period in life discovers ourselves instinctively dragged to a person that there mounts a connect rigorous to overlook. These bonds are so magnetic that initially, it makes you feel be the most fortunate spirit alive, but behind this heavenly mood lies the shady stains of KARMIC RELATIONSHIPS. 

Karmic attraction is when you are uncontrollably physically or emotionally drawn to someone without any obvious intention. Karmic relationships are not meant to last, and they usually end with the most influential life lessons in love which assist you in reaching the brighter side of sanity and adulthood.

Spiritualists view karmic relationships as some temporary path in which two souls favor healing each other of their respective past life concerns and help the soul grow in push-pull manners to settle out karma.

Usually, the first relationship we all get into turns out to be a karmic relationship, and strangely, no matter how much effort and energy you invest in them, it never works out and ends in troubling your emotional well-being when you can't let them go because it's never the love that it lacks. It's just a passionate hotheaded kind of love tempted for partnership. Karmic relationships are meant to appear, help you recognize and acknowledge your worth and fly. It never stays!

About each of us runs into one or more karmic relationships so, here are a few of the markers of a karmic relationship:-

  • BLANK BOUNDARIES

There are no boundaries within a karmic relationship. None of any interests in anchoring rigid boundaries for own-self and neither could recognize other's pre-existing ones.

  • REPETITIVE PATTERNS

Karmic relationships happen to be stagnant and inactive, and there is no behavior encouraging growth adopted; thus, the subjects of conflict and quarrels stay constant.

  • ABSURD ADDICTIVITY

As mentioned, a karmic relationship is a hotheaded excitable kind of love where both the partners are tempted by looks, popularity, or other absurd materialistic stuff and hence develop a sense of un-detachableness.

  • LABOURIOUS

A karmic relationship appears to be so wholesome and perfect that withdrawal is tough. No matter how much you attempt, it never acts out unless you positively recognize what to need to learn from it.

  • SELFISHNESS

As a karmic relationship is free of boundaries, self-indulgence and self-interests only serve in these relationships, thus revealing vicious dependency patterns.

  •  SWIFT CONNECTIONS

Karmic relations are headed by instant flash attractions, with the delusion of the partner being the wholesome and absolute choice. It would taste like a connection made in heaven unless you recognize your needs and appetite behind this immediate attraction.

  • SCRATCH YOUR SCARS

A karmic relationship would uncover your adversest fears and insecurities like fear of abandonment, fear of hurt, fear of rejection, commitment anxieties, etc. unveiling your darkest side and leaving you more vulnerable than ever before. You may also start condemning yourself witnessing that unpleasant side of yourself before you realize it's not you but the relationship growing toxic.

  • PERFECTION PHANTOMS

A karmic partner seems to be so perfect that your life eventually orbits around them; you might declare them the only source of your comfort and happiness, irrespective of all the flaws, disregarding all red flags.

  • DISTURBED DYNAMICS

Karmic relations come out to be the most inconsistent and unpredictable ones. Eccentric and volatile patterns are the characteristic traits of such relations. e.g., routine breakup-patch-up fusses.

  • DEEP DEPENDENCY

Karmic partners tend to devise you in inescapable dependency need, falling into the belief that your world may fall apart if you tried to detach or withdraw from this relationship. You display intense mental, physical, and emotional reliance on karmic partners.

So, if you spot yourself befalling for any of these red flags, know you're falling for a karmic relationship that is NEVER GOING TO LAST. Karmic relations are not the forever kind of relationships and exist to drift your self-esteem and self-love drives to a more positive and constructive side.

REMEMBER:-  Relationships are all about growth which a karmic one can never lead to. 

 

How is this in relevance with psychology. Though I can see that is how things should be in any science but I am wondering if there is any direct or indirect relation with paychology. I loved the article..healing read.
Very Beautiful | June 9, 2021, 6:44 am
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